Letter for Palm Sunday

Dear fellow pilgrims,

Thank you all for your responses and contributions of thing that we might share together in these days. I shall certainly send some, out at hopefully a manageable volume.

I’m pleased to report that it seems no one on our mailing list is displaying symptoms of the virus, though some have colds or other common ailments which haven’t let us alone even in lock down! We can be thankful that Wiltshire as a whole has low reported numbers, and even more that people are behaving very responsibly and thoughtfully in our county.

I was sent a little shared message that began, “Am I the only one who is NOT coping…..?” and I’m conscious that we can feel duty-bound to say “I’m fine”, even when we’re not. So two things: firstly, it’s not a sign of selfishness or weakness to feel anxiety or panic in the face of something so unknown and uncharted. We’re hard-wired to have heightened emotions in the face of danger or threat, and these are fundamental human responses that we should not feel guilty or ashamed about. Secondly, there are good things we can do to help – talking honestly with someone about how you really feel is the most helpful, and there are relaxation techniques and meditations that can be very effective against anxiety. You can get in touch with me in complete confidentiality if you would like some help.

Get Creative
Another good suggestion is to find something creative to do, and it prompted me to think around Palm Sunday and Easter. So here’s my latest plan:

Palm Sunday
Our palm crosses are sitting in the vestry and will have to stay there, so this is going to be the year that you made your own “palm” cross!!! This is the link to a YouTube video.

But be ready to press the pause and rewind buttons – it takes a while to get the hang of it!
You might be able to access some pampas grass or similar, but really you can make it with a couple of long strips of paper, perhaps ½ inch wide. Four strips from A4 card or paper, sellotaped into two long ones would work, and you could decorate them before folding. You might try ribbon – but only if you have a patience threshold that is way higher than mine.

I suggest that, if you would like to join in the 10am time of worship on Palm Sunday (I’ll be sending out material soon), we keep it as a “fellowship meal”. Put some bread and a glass of water, juice or wine on your table, with your palm cross. Follow the prayers and readings we’ll send you, up until the Peace. Share the words of the Peace thinking of our church family. Sing or say the hymn we’ll all have. Then we can “break bread together”. This is not the sacrament of holy communion, which can only be celebrated when we’re back together again, but it is an affirmation of our sharing together and receiving God’s grace in a spiritual way in this crisis. Take some bread and a drink and picture being together at “the feast at Christ’s table in his Kingdom”.

Easter Day

In much the same way, I’d like to suggest we each make an Easter Garden! This could simply be a picture or a drawing, or you might want to start collecting twigs, stones and moss on your daily walk and get creating…

The ingredients are: a tomb with a stone rolled away (flower pot and drinks coaster?) a cross with a white cloth draped on it (two twigs stuck in half a potato?)… Read More

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Easter with a Bell and a Candle…..

Dear fellow pilgrims,

Thank you all for your responses and contributions of thing that we might share together in these days. I shall certainly send some out, at hopefully a manageable volume.

I’m please to report that it seems no one on our mailing list is displaying symptoms of the virus, though some have colds or other common ailments which haven’t let us alone even in lock down! We can be thankful that Wiltshire as a whole has low reported numbers, and even more that people are behaving very responsibly and thoughtfully in our county.

I was sent a little shared message that began, “Am I the only one who is NOT coping…..?” and I’m conscious that we can feel duty-bound to say “I’m fine”, even when we’re not. So two things: firstly, it’s not a sign of selfishness or weakness to feel anxiety or panic in the face of something so unknown and uncharted. We’re hard-wired to have heightened emotions in the face of danger or threat, and these are fundamental human responses that we should not feel guilty or ashamed about. Secondly, there are good things we can do to help – talking honestly with someone about how you really feel is the most helpful, and there are relaxation techniques and meditations that can be very effective against anxiety. You can get in touch with me in complete confidentiality if you would like some help.

Get Creative
Another good suggestion is to find something creative to do, and it prompted me to think around Palm Sunday and Easter. So here’s my latest plan:

Palm Sunday

I suggest that, if you would like to join in the 10am time of worship on Palm Sunday (I’ll be sending out material soon), we keep it as a “fellowship meal”. Put some bread and a glass of water, juice or wine on your table, with your palm cross. Follow the prayers and readings we’ll send you, up until the Peace. Share the words of the Peace thinking of our church family. Sing or say the hymn we’ll all have. Then we can “break bread together”. This is not the sacrament of holy communion, which can only be celebrated when we’re back together again, but it is an affirmation of our sharing together and receiving God’s grace in a spiritual way in this crisis. Take some bread and a drink and picture being together at “the feast at Christ’s table in his Kingdom”.

Easter Day

In much the same way, I’d like to suggest we each make an Easter garden! This could simply be a picture or a drawing, or you might want to start collecting twigs, stones and moss on your daily walk and get creating…

The ingredients are: a tomb with a stone rolled away (flower pot and drinks coaster?) a cross with a white cloth draped on it (two twigs stuck in half a potato?) some flowers and a green garden.

More nearer the time, but I’m picturing each of us with our Eater garden on the table, with some bread and a glass, a candle – to light when we say “Christ is risen!” and a bell (bicycle bell, crystal glass and spoon?) to ring when we say the Gloria. Then we can say with full conviction “As we are gathered, Jesus is here!”

A very different Easter from what we would wish, with our beautiful church building alive with flowers and banners and light, but at least we can make it an Easter to remember as being special in the best way we can!

And finally… take a photo of your “Easter in Adversity” garden and table, so that we can share them online – and put them on the noticeboard in church when we are back!… Read More

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Church building closes

Dear friends,

Every new communication I share with you is more heart-breaking than the last. Now our churches are closed and locked till the other side of Easter, and even my convoluted scheme to make the sacraments available has been swept away. I can no longer offer you the sacraments in church or at home in this terrible crisis.

I’ve not doubt that sharper minds than my own will be putting great thought into how we might celebrate our Lord’s resurrection on Easter Day, and I will certainly keep you informed if the church comes up with something especially creative.

At the moment, it all feels like the last episode of “Rev” – if you remember the TV series we used as a Lent course two years ago. We are walking the Way of the Cross where so much that is precious feels stripped away.

But perhaps the best line in the best hymn in all the history of hymns is this: “Emptied Himself of all but love.”

Holy Week is just that, the experience of having everything precious stolen away, until only the things that matter most are left. Only the one thing that matters.

Love will triumph. it is the wisdom of God and the power of God.

Every blessing

Rod

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Lighting a Candle in Church

Praying with candle

On the right side of church, near the font, you’ll find a stand where you can light a candle – and a card for you to take home – as well as a notebook where you can write down anything or anyone you would like us to pray for.
Often when we pray, it isn’t easy to find words. You may want to say thank you to God, or ask him to be close to someone in need. You may be remembering someone who has died and want to express love, thankfulness and heartache all at the same time. But God always hears what our heart is praying, even when we can’t express it. Lighting a candle can be a prayer without words. Just being still and  holding someone in your heart is enough. When you go home, remember the light of your candle still shining and your prayer which stays as a light in God’s heart even when other lights fail.

Praying with candle

“Lord Jesus, let your light of love shine on me today and on everyone I have been praying for. You shared our earthly life and you know and share our every joy and sorrow. Help me to see you more clearly, love you more dearly, follow you more nearly today and every day. Amen”

 

 

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St Nicholas’

St Nicholas’ Church, Tytherton Lucas

The village church of the tiny hamlet of Tytherton Lucas, St Nicholas’, has been in the care of St Andrew’s parish for over 200 years. The church lies in the middle of farmland at the end of a driveway to a private home, Westfield House. The owners kindly allow access for those attending church.

Google maps link here: https://goo.gl/maps/PywsioCBqtw

Or set your satnav to: Westfield House, Tytherton Lucas, Chippenham SN15 3RL

As a simple guide, the trick is to leave Chippenham on the London Rd (A4 East), go past the cemetery and then keep turning left!

Service Times at St Nicholas’ during the Winter Months

Normal Monthly Pattern

1st Sunday 3.30pm Eucharist in traditional language

3rd Sunday 3.30pm Evening Prayer with Communion

 

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Monthly Parish Magazine

You can read the latest editions of our parish magazine, the St. Andrew’s Herald here:

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Sunday Services

It is with great sadness that we must postpone all our Sunday worship until the Corona virus outbreak is over

 

 

Sunday Worship at St Andrews (this pattern may occasionally change – in which case details will be on the website and in the magazine)

1st Sunday:

8am Said Eucharist – Traditional Language

10am: All Age Eucharist with Baptism

 2nd Sunday:

8am Said Eucharist – Traditional Language

10am Parish Eucharist –  with Sunday Club

4pm: Andy’s@4 – for families with younger children

3rd Sunday:

8am: Said Eucharist – Traditional Language

10am Family Worship followed by coffee,

 then shortened Eucharist at 11.15am

6.30pm: Evening Worship – alternating between                       

Evensong, Healing and Celtic services

 4th Sunday:

8am Said Eucharist – Traditional Language

10am Parish Eucharist –  with Sunday Club

including the opportunity for prayer                                                                  and laying-on-of-hands for healing

6.30pm Taize Service Alternate 4th Sunday

5th Sunday:

8am: Said Eucharist – Traditional Language

10am: All Age Eucharist

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